Sometimes Daddies Leave  

 

 

 Behind the Music

This song is semi-autobiographical in the sense that I remember distinctly the feelings of a helpless six year old boy watching the taillights of his father’s car disappear along with the illusion of a secure, happy marriage.  However, the lyrics are intentionally written to also apply to those families who are also separated through military service, prison sentences, or loss of life.  This separation can bring about intense feelings of loneliness.  I desire to reach out through this song and offer empathy, brotherhood, and a sense of hope that God is loving on all of us simultaneously regardless of distance or circumstance.

Lyrics

Come baby, climb into My lap, and let Me dry those tears.

Haunted by a dream of tail-lights and shifting gears,

Reliving a memory no child should ever see.

Yet too many do, ‘cause sometimes daddies leave.

I know you felt so all alone, beneath the back porch light.

Your neighbors turned their TVs up to drown your cries into the night.

But I was right beside you, even though you could not see.

My face was also wet, My heart did also bleed.

There is no easy answer,

Life twists and moves like a dancer.

Even full understanding gives but small relief

For those who find out first-hand,

Sometimes daddies leave.

Some children never recover, some overcompensate.

Some children adapt quite nicely; some children learn to hate.

The wind blows coldest through a house divided suddenly,

A shelter insufficient for a shattered family.

There is no easy answer,

Life twists and moves like a dancer.

Even full understanding gives but small relief

For those who find out first-hand

Sometimes daddies leave

Behind the ones they care for,

While love’s still strong,

And they don’t want to be gone.

But know they care, even when they’re not there.

Just as My love remains,

when for man’s sin, My pain

was an acceptable cost,

A worldly death on a cross.

There is no easy answer.

Just know when you need Me, I’m right here.

I hear your father calling, so drift on back to sleep,

On his knees, seeking My face, haunted by a dream.

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